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Foreplay

Foreplay

Foreplay is traditionally defined as the physically and emotionally intimate acts that two people engage in to turn themselves on before having sexual intercourse. But these days, the concept of foreplay can seem a little antiquated and heteronormative as society moves toward a more expansive view of sex and sexuality.
A healthy way to think of foreplay is to disregard the fore and concentrate on playfulness. Think of it as anything that you and your partner(s) engage in to turn each other on and set the mood, no matter what happens before or afterward. 

It doesn’t have to lead to intercourse

Intercourse doesn’t have to be the main “course” or even on the menu if you don’t want it to be.

Foreplay can hold its own and be all you need to reach the big "O". Many people with vaginas don’t orgasm with intercourse alone.
So, as long as there’s consent foreplay can be and include anything you want.
  
Light some candles
There’s nothing like candles to set the scene for all the sexy things.
Tea lights are inexpensive, so stock up and light them all around any and every room you might get busy in.
Did we mention how flattering candlelight is on the skin?
Put some music on
We all have a song or two that touches us deep in our special place. Find out what theirs is, throw in yours for good measure, and make a playlist of others.
Dance
Two bodies pressed against each other and feeling each other’s hot breath on your cheek as you sway to the rhythm of sexy tunes. ‘Nuff said.
Striptease
You don’t need a pole or even great moves to do a striptease. Dim the lights and take your clothes off slowly with an expression that shows no fear. Confidence can totally be faked, BTW.
Put out an erotic spread
Set up a picnic on the bed with a spread of some sexy goodies that are made for sharing.
Juicy strawberries and cherries with some whipped cream and chocolate sauce for dipping are perfect for feeding — and licking off — each other.
And chocolate’s a natural aphrodisiac. Bon appétit!
Make out
Kick it ol’ school and just make out. Do it on the couch, in the back of a cab, or pressed up against the window.

If you’re in the moment

Massage

The power of touch is real, and a sensual massage works wonders on the body and mind. Light some candles and get out the oil, or use a massage candle that does double duty and can be very Fifty Shades-esque.

Start at their feet and work your way up, being sure to hit their sensual pressure points and linger wherever they want you to.

 

Hemp Seed Tasty Travel Collection

Erogenous zones

Your partner’s body is a smorgasbord of hot spots just waiting to be touched. Kiss, lick, and nibble your way through all of their erogenous zones.

Skin on skin

Grinding  turns out, isn’t just for horny teens. The sweet anticipation of two bodies rubbing against each other in various states of undress just can’t be beat.

Verbalize

Talking about what you want during sexy time doesn’t just work as foreplay; it also ensures that you each get what you want and need in bed. Tell them what turns you on and what you want to do to them.

Toys

There’s more to sex toys than huge dildos.

Vibrators of any shape and size can be used externally on every erogenous zone you can think of.

There are also finger vibes and nipple vibes you can use to take foreplay to another level.

 

Whisper Micro Heated Bullet Vibe in Purple

 

The Rose 

 

French Kiss Charmer Clitoral Vibe

A hot soapy shower

Hot wet skin and hands sliding across each other’s bodies as you lather each other up with soap? Yes please! A hot bath works, too.

 

Sexplosion! Bath Bombs


 

 

Sensory play

Not that all this kissing and dry humping isn’t going to tickle the senses, but you can take it to the next level with a few props.

Blindfold your partner and tease them with different textures and temperatures with things like feathers, ice cubes, and your tongue.

 

Fetish Fantasy Lover's Fantasy Kit

 

Japanese Drip Candles

 

Heart Beat Crop

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